With my dad one time. He is my second father. I am lucky I got him. The first father sort of was not real interested. My second father was. He helped me with math.
My second father was talking about spoons. He said he had just discovered why he only liked small spoons. I said, Oh, why? He said because any time he said he did not like something when he was a kid his father made him eat a table spoon full of it. And to this day he could only really eat anything with a small spoon.
I said, That is funny, I have the same thing.
He said, Really? Why do you think that is?
I said, Because any time I ever said I did not like something as a kid, you fed it to me with a table spoon.
When my marriage collapsed my husband told me I always emasculated him.
I said, Really, how do I do that?
He said any time he put a spoon out for me I got up and replaced it.
I have always wondered. Was me changing the spoon emasculating him? Or was him never during three years noticing I only ate with small spoons him being really really unobservant?