bargains with eros
Sulya is blogging about love.
Sulya always has smart to say about that love stuff.
I do not.
Sometimes when someone is in trouble I can see real clear and tell them things that might save them. But mostly will not. Survival instincts are impaired by love.
I write love stories. Dark love stories. People die. But they are love stories. And those are smart. I think. Other people think so.
But general thoughts on love? What I know is a short list:
Morning people and night people do not mix. Sleep tangled with me people and I need my own air space people do not mix. Nothing hurts worse than wanting someone who does not want you back. The biggest relationship killer is losing respect for your partner. People who accuse you of things you would never do would do those things. Never get involved with someone who does not like you. “I love you now change everything” is the stupidest and most common love crime on Planet Earth. Speed dial does not equal love.
That is it. My wisdom on love.
Oh. And one other thing: If being with someone turns you into someone you do not like or even know you should walk away.
But you mostly will not.*
*refer to “survival instincts are impaired by love”